So it's reaching the end of 2014. Boy, does time pass quickly. I feel like the older I get, the faster the time goes by. Growing up is exciting but it's also very mentally, physically, and emotionally exhausting. But I got through 2014 and I'm looking forward to another great year.
Things I've Learned from 2014:
- People make promises without the intention of keeping them (but as Spiderman says, those are the best promises, right?)
- You are your own problem and your own solution
- Tumblr is my happy place
- If you don't want to go out, then don't. Don't feel like you are obliged to be social.
- Shopping tip: if you try something on and don't say "I WANT THIS", then don't buy it
- There is no need to force friendships
- Listening is more important than talking
- Being a student and on a budget sucks
- Everything is temporary
- It's important to spend time alone
- Spend money on experiences, not material things
- Expectations most often lead to disappointments. So why not just be indifferent until the outcome?
- Feelings + emotions get the best of us. Therefore, do not take anything seriously when you are super happy or super sad
I'm not really about the "New Years Resolution" Life. But I guess I do have some goals and reminders for 2015.
Reminders for 2015:
- Worry less. Whatever happens will happen so why spend your time worrying about something you can't control?
- Be curious. There is so much out there in the world that is waiting for you to explore. Actively ask questions, and find things you've never seen before.
- Remember to save time for yourself. Find your hobbies and make time for them. (For me, it's reading fashion blogs, writing, and blogging)
- Maintain special friendships. Everyone is busy but there is always time for a lunch or dinner date to catch up.
- Do not let another person control your life. Remember to maintain your individuality and never let anyone close enough to take that away from you. That is just self-destructive.
- Drink a cup of tea every morning. Not only is it good for your health but it's something that will pump you up for the day.
- Always look presentable. You never know who you're going to bump into during the day.
- Try new things. Go take some muay thai lessons, try a new food, watch a musical. Just strive to do something new everyday. It doesn't have to be something big. Taking a new route to work or buying ice cream from another shop can be something fresh.
- Be confident in yourself. We all have our strengths and we all have our weaknesses but we are all striving to become someone different. Embrace those differences and know that you are special enough.
Have a good 2015 everyone!
xx